Hey guys! I got my first "you suck" style comment! I feel like a real blogger now! Cuz you're not a real blogger until someone thinks you suck for some stupid reason and takes time out of their busy busy day to tell you so.
Here's what Anonymous had to say about my last post -
While I think it's great that you are FINALLY happy about SOMETHING, I think it's a shame that you were so cruel in the past, when it came to other pregnant women. How would you feel now, if someone says they hate you because of your pregnancy? Remember that song, Pregnant Women Are Smug?
So I shall respond.
Bwah ha ha ha ha ha!!!! Really? You're taking the time out to tell me that my miserable struggle wasn't a happy enough journey for you? Ex-best-friend PR, is that you? The idiocy of this post really does sound like you.
Pregnant people ARE smug. PR sure was. I certainly was. And I most likely will be again. Odds are, a lot of people are going to find me really irritating because of it. Saying so isn't cruel. Shoving a branding iron in someones eye is cruel, posting a silly little video that teases a very common annoying personality trait is hardly cruel. And it's not like I went running around to pregnancy blogs making bitchy comments. In what way have I been CRUEL?
People are perfectly welcome to hate me for being pregnant. I said long before I got pregnant that I expect a few "fuck yous" to be flung my way when I get my baby. I'm rather shocked that instead of losing readers by announcing my BFP, I actually gained 2. I still expect many of my IF friends to get sick of pregnancy posts and drop me from their newsfeed if I'm lucky enough to continue making pregnancy posts for a few more weeks. And I'll feel perfectly fine with that. I've dropped other people from my reading list when they became a pregnancy blog because at the time, their experience was no longer relevant to mine.
However, I'm very curious as to your motivations. Clearly you haven't just stumbled across my blog for the first time today and decided to comment. You remember a post from a while back, and you know my blog well enough to know the general tone tends to not be a happy one. And yet you've continued to read it. And you've chosen to now tell me that I've been cruel in the past, to imply that I've been annoying you with all of my unhappy drama. Why haven't you mentioned these things before if they were bugging you or called me out for being cruel when I was actually being cruel? And why, pray tell, have you chosen not to assign your identity to your crappy comment? Most people would either just stop reading something that bugged them, or they would own up to their opinion when they expressed it, you have done neither.
So, Anonymous, who are you and what is your problem?
Smugly Pregnant in Infertility Land