tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post6370515365168745870..comments2023-09-09T05:13:17.402-07:00Comments on First Time Twins: I'm petrifiedAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03834196556216136587noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-1564323484486662532011-10-18T09:59:27.526-07:002011-10-18T09:59:27.526-07:00It's like jumping out of an airplane hoping th...It's like jumping out of an airplane hoping that your parachute works even though you're still nursing a broken leg, rib, and arm from the last jump. <br /><br />You've got to do it.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16868731189878290726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-27423375534823324822011-10-17T15:55:30.287-07:002011-10-17T15:55:30.287-07:00As someone who has experienced 4 m/c with only 1 h...As someone who has experienced 4 m/c with only 1 healthy born child, I TOTALLY get it. No matter which way it goes (IT WILL TOTALLY WORK!!!), you will freak out and that is normal. Just believe that it will happen to you and that you deserve it. You are a determined momma to be and you are taking control of your future. Try not to stress too much & I look forward to reading here that it worked. GL!<br /><br />MelissaMBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06949457220048396356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-22543803917662740402011-10-17T13:09:41.211-07:002011-10-17T13:09:41.211-07:00I don't really have anything new to add. Basi...I don't really have anything new to add. Basically Chickenpig said it: take this one task at a time. Just focus on what you need to do for this IVF. Then when you get the results from this IVF, you can face the positives and negatives of those results. And we are here for you!!! Lets of deep breaths. Lots of cuddles with your kitties. Lots of cuddles with K!BleedingTuliphttp://pursuingparenthood.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-80397419771755517302011-10-16T18:07:20.681-07:002011-10-16T18:07:20.681-07:00I felt the same exact way that you do. I wanted so...I felt the same exact way that you do. I wanted so much to get pregnant, I was afraid it wouldn't work, I was afraid it was going to work. When I got pregnant, I spent every day afraid. <br /><br /> You just have to take it one day at a time. Try to get pregnant first. If/When you get pregnant, just live through one day at a time. Every day gets easier. You can do this! You are one of the bravest bloggers I know. I did one FET after my miscarriage because I didn't know what else to do. If it hadn't worked, I wouldn't have kids today because I was too scared. You are so incredibly determined and brave. You CAN do this.Chickenpighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09442755180328605920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-71134126595972632952011-10-16T13:54:11.183-07:002011-10-16T13:54:11.183-07:00I know, I know. Each outcome is so incredibly terr...I know, I know. Each outcome is so incredibly terrifying in its own way. But you will get through it, and we will be here for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1574605296259081338.post-37973056740836298042011-10-16T10:39:50.172-07:002011-10-16T10:39:50.172-07:00Take a deep breath and blow it all out. I totally...Take a deep breath and blow it all out. I totally understand where you are right now and where you've been. I know the fears you have are quite rational too. But, you and I both know that if we dwell on it right now our retrievals aren't going to go well. Hope to see you this week if mine goes to the retrieval stage as now planned.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316511791499949824noreply@blogger.com